If The Narcissist Can Still Hurt You Via Text, Use This Simple Yet Effective Technique

When a narcissist writes an extremely hurtful message that gets into you so deep.They get in deep because you still believe them. They can still break you down from a distance. As long as you still respond to all of the Narcissist’s texts, you read those texts in the Narcissists voice in your mind causingContinue reading “If The Narcissist Can Still Hurt You Via Text, Use This Simple Yet Effective Technique”

A Narcissist Plays The Victim Well

During my own childhood my older brother was consistently being so verbally and physically abusive towards me. It was like he despised me. The Narcissist and my brother caused the same name feeling inside me except with the Narc I was more disconnected. Their disgust and anger was was aimed at me regularly so theContinue reading “A Narcissist Plays The Victim Well”

Understanding The Narcissist

Once you understand this then you will do even more research and find ways not to have this person in your life. You just don’t know it yet and still have more to learn before you make that change.Analogy: You wouldn’t just buy a huskie because of how they look or how cool you willContinue reading “Understanding The Narcissist”

When The Narcissist Makes You Believe That There is Something Wrong With You

I had lost count how many times the narcissist would say this to me. “What the f**k is wrong with you” over and over for a very long time. If anyone knows anything about self talk, habit and programming the mind, if something is said to us consistently over and over again, then that questionContinue reading “When The Narcissist Makes You Believe That There is Something Wrong With You”

Does The Narcissist In Your Life Tell You That You Make Them Angry?

Well that is not true!! They were already this way before you met then so PLEASE believe this!!It’s NOT your fault!Narcissist have the intense need to want to control their victims and lash out whenever they feel like it whenever they feel you’re not doing something to their standards. This is not a relationship! ThisContinue reading “Does The Narcissist In Your Life Tell You That You Make Them Angry?”

“You look Like a Cheap Prostitute With Make-Up On!”

Ah I remember this day. I was feeling depressed and my friend wanted to do something, ANYTHING to cheer me up so she had done my make-up for me.I have to say just the feeling of someone doing your make-up is soooo relaxing. And when it was finished I felt so much better and thoughtContinue reading ““You look Like a Cheap Prostitute With Make-Up On!””

“If You Put On Anymore Weight I’m Not Gonna Wanna Be With You”

We were both eating take-away one night.He had finished eating the rest of his donor kebab which I had never tried before so I start eating his and he said this to me. If I put on anymore weight then that would be him losing control and so he would say things like this soContinue reading ““If You Put On Anymore Weight I’m Not Gonna Wanna Be With You””

My Baby Was Born

At 39 weeks pregnant I felt water leaking at around 23:00. I was also getting mild pain on and off so I wasn’t sure whether it was labour pains or anxiety pains. I told my mom and it was a very surreal moment. “Oh my god I am going to have the baby soon” IContinue reading “My Baby Was Born”

I thought I dodged a bullet

I was feeling relieved that I had a lucky escape. That was an intense moment, but it was more intense than it needed to be and to be honest, it had put me off the whole dating thing. If everyone reacts like that after 3 dates then it’s not worth the hassle. A few weeksContinue reading “I thought I dodged a bullet”