Does The Narcissist In Your Life Tell You That You Make Them Angry?

Well that is not true!! They were already this way before you met then so PLEASE believe this!!It’s NOT your fault!Narcissist have the intense need to want to control their victims and lash out whenever they feel like it whenever they feel you’re not doing something to their standards. This is not a relationship! ThisContinue reading “Does The Narcissist In Your Life Tell You That You Make Them Angry?”

“You look Like a Cheap Prostitute With Make-Up On!”

Ah I remember this day. I was feeling depressed and my friend wanted to do something, ANYTHING to cheer me up so she had done my make-up for me.I have to say just the feeling of someone doing your make-up is soooo relaxing. And when it was finished I felt so much better and thoughtContinue reading ““You look Like a Cheap Prostitute With Make-Up On!””

“If You Put On Anymore Weight I’m Not Gonna Wanna Be With You”

We were both eating take-away one night.He had finished eating the rest of his donor kebab which I had never tried before so I start eating his and he said this to me. If I put on anymore weight then that would be him losing control and so he would say things like this soContinue reading ““If You Put On Anymore Weight I’m Not Gonna Wanna Be With You””

My Baby Was Born

At 39 weeks pregnant I felt water leaking at around 23:00. I was also getting mild pain on and off so I wasn’t sure whether it was labour pains or anxiety pains. I told my mom and it was a very surreal moment. “Oh my god I am going to have the baby soon” IContinue reading “My Baby Was Born”

I thought I dodged a bullet

I was feeling relieved that I had a lucky escape. That was an intense moment, but it was more intense than it needed to be and to be honest, it had put me off the whole dating thing. If everyone reacts like that after 3 dates then it’s not worth the hassle. A few weeksContinue reading “I thought I dodged a bullet”

When The Narcissist Entered Into My Life

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When The Narcissist Entered Into My Life

Let’s start from the beginning as I try to piece together how I got myself into this. I was 19 years old and I started working in a new job and the narcissist who was 5 years older than me and wearing his mask had taken an interest in me. I don’t know why, IContinue reading “When The Narcissist Entered Into My Life”

7 Warning Signs He Is Controlling You

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7 Warning Signs He Is Controlling You

Now in the last post I babbled on a bit. I guess I just have a lot to say on this topic seeing as how I have lived it. It can sometimes be difficult to understand if this IS abuse if you are someone who is currently living this. The abuser says things in aContinue reading “7 Warning Signs He Is Controlling You”