A narc has the ability to give you what you lack in yourself once they know what that is. At first you think it’s great that they want to know everything about you, but it’s for a reason.. Their focus is switched on more when you talk about your trauma and weaknesses because knowledge is power and control. They want to know how to break you when they feel it build within themselves .. They turn into that person you have the desire to be with and they pull you in.
Would a mild bit of jealousy be normal in a relationship?
Be aware of it as a redflag anyway and observe it for any increase. At the same time you wont even be focused on if they like you…because the action that you are consciously doing changing your focus and protecting you.
